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21 Best Anniversary Gifts to Celebrate Your Relationship

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Celebrating an anniversary is a big milestone, no matter how many years you’ve been together. The day commemorates your commitment to one another, and it’s all about honoring the love and memories you’ve built. Whether it’s your 1st anniversary or your 60th, the perfect gift for your partner should reflect the unique bond you share. If you’re looking for a little inspiration, we’re here to help with the best anniversary gifts for your special someone. We’re breaking down traditional and modern gift themes by year, creative ideas that speak to your partner’s interests, luxe kitchen finds, personalized keepsakes, and more.

If you’re a couple who loves all things fun and board games, try a couples game that sparks meaningful conversations and helps you discover new things about each other. For a heartfelt gesture, consider a cozy blanket stitched with a hand-written note from you, a floral bouquet that says it all, or even a personalized world map for the couple in wanderlust. With these heartfelt anniversary gift ideas, you’ll be sure to find something that will make this year’s special day unforgettable.

Anniversary Gift Themes By Year

There is a symbolic gift that’s attached to each milestone year of marriage, from your first to your 60th, with the traditional themes dating back centuries. The commonly known traditional gifts symbolize the marking of your time together, which get stronger every year. Modern interpretations, however, offer an alternative that might better reflect a couple’s needs today. If and whichever you choose, though, your partner will love that it came from your heart.

YearTraditional GiftModern GiftGemstone
1PaperClocksGold
2CottonChinaGarnet
3LeatherCrystal or GlassPearl
4Flowers or FruitsAppliancesBlue Topaz
5WoodSilverwareSapphire
6IronWoodAmethyst
7Copper or WoolDesk SetsOnyx
8BronzeLinen or LaceTourmaline
9PotteryLeatherLapis Lazuli
10Aluminum or TinDiamond JewelryDiamond
15CrystalWatchRuby
20ChinaPlatinumEmerald
25SilverSilverSilver
30PearlDiamondPearl
35CoralJadeEmerald
40RubyRubyRuby
45SapphireSapphireSapphire
50GoldGoldGold
55EmeraldEmeraldEmerald
60DiamondDiamondDiamond

01

Uncommon Goods Hand-Written Letter Blanket

Uncommon Goods

$155.00

This ultra-cozy, 100% cotton blanket won’t just make them feel warm and fuzzy on the outside, but on the inside, too. Printed in a hand-written font, you can customize this blanket to say anything you want. It’s a love letter they can have by their side forever.

02

White and Gold 12-Piece Cookware Set

Caraway

$595.00

Caraway has received high marks for its nontoxic, naturally nonstick cookware sets (and stylish look, of course). For the home chef, this is a gift that will last for years to come. The set even comes with a lid holder and magnetic pan racks for easy storage.

03

Chic Royal Apple Watch Metal Band

Burga

$99.95

If they’re obsessed with fashion, then they know the style pain of the Apple Watch rubber wristband! But if your special someone doesn’t want to trade style for convenience, then they’ll love this gorgeous metal Apple Watch band. Crafted from stainless steel, this band comes in five different shades, so you can purchase the one that perfectly complements their taste.

04

Love at First Bite Recipe Journal

Papier

$38.00

If you and your partner first connected over food and a shared love of cooking, consider this gift your relationship’s perfect companion. The adorable modern cover combines whimsy with elegance, and you can even personalize the cover with your names or anniversary date. Inside, you’ll find space for 85 recipes, including lines for ratings, dietary requirements, serving size, and more. 

05

Pink & White Peony Bouquet

1-800-Flowers

$137.00

Flowers might seem like the easy way to go—but they actually can be thoughtful, and this peony bouquet is the perfect example. This romantic arrangement makes a beautiful statement, and is carefully shipped right to your door. You can choose how full you prefer the arrangement, and it even includes a vase.

06

Marble & Wood Serving Board with Cheese Server Set

Lenox

$132.00

This gorgeous marble and wood serving board is the perfect gift for the partner who can’t resist a good charcuterie board. The mixed media design will look chic in any setting—whether hosting friends or cozying up for movie night—and it’s a practical yet elegant keepsake that will last for years to come.

07

ClarkandTaft Personalized Leather Bookmark

Etsy

$49.90

The best anniversary gift ideas marry sentimentality and functionality together into one memorable present. This personalized bookmark hits all the notes—plus, it’s beautiful. For the spouse with a towering tome pile, you can’t go wrong here. Customize the bookmark to say anything you’d like. We love the one featured: “To many more chapters ahead.” How sweet!

08

Radiance Duo Luxury Cleaning Gift Set

Shinery

$56.00

This luxury jewelry cleaning gift set from Shinery will keep their sentimental pieces looking just as sparkly and new as the day you gifted it to them. And because the wash is made from plants without the addition of harsh chemicals, the combo is safe to use on all metals and gemstones. It’s a perfect pairing with a new piece of fine jewelry.

09

Personalized Anniversary Pushpin World Map

Uncommon Goods

$165.00

Celebrate your journey together with this beautiful personalized world map. Use the 100 included pins to mark your honeymoon, hometowns, favorite vacation spots, and more. You can even personalize it with your names and anniversary date for a truly special reminder of your travels through life and love.

10

ESTHER PEREL Where Should We Begin Game of Stories

Amazon

$40.00

Make your anniversary celebration extra special with this interactive card game from renowned relationship expert Esther Perel. With 200 thoughtful prompts, it’s the perfect way for couples to dive deeper into each other’s thoughts, spark meaningful conversations, and create lasting memories.

11

Date Night Box – Scratch Off Card Game

Amazon

$16.95

If you’ve been together for a while, your date nights have likely become a little too routine. This deck of cards from Amazon is a great way to solve that problem. It’s a charming wedding anniversary gift idea no matter how many years you have under your belt. Inside are 35 different cards to scratch off, revealing creative date night ideas that’ll create new memories. 

12

Harry’s Gift Box

Harry & David

$59.99

Are snacks the key to their heart? Then a snazzy box from Harry & David may be the perfect anniversary gift. This one comes with the company’s famous pears, caramel popcorn, cheese, sausage, nuts, and crackers. To really impress them, plan a picnic date to go along with it! This also makes a great present to send to your favorite couple who’s celebrating an anniversary, too. 

13

Wedding Anniversary Journal by Duncan & Stone

Amazon

$45.00

If you’re a duo who appreciates sentimentality, this pick is for you. This sweet journal is designed to be used for years to come, and the ideal pick for a first anniversary gift, as it’s filled with prompts for you to fill out together at the end of each year. You’ll recount favorite memories, how you celebrated, and other hallmarks of your time together. It’s a keepsake journal that will serve as a thoughtful marriage time capsule.

14

SolidRockDesignCo First Dance Song Photo Frame

Etsy

$32.93

If you’re a newlywed, you’re probably on the hunt for a 1-year anniversary gift that perfectly nods to that magical moment. This custom print from Etsy achieves just that. Surrounding one of your favorite wedding day shots, you can include the lyrics to your first dance song. (Or another special tune, like the karaoke song you tackled together on your second date.) Even better, it’s printed on gorgeous textured watercolor paper, which nods to the traditional first year anniversary gift theme of paper.

15

PeachCustomShirts Custom Embroidered Roman Numeral Hoodie

Etsy

$26.65

Nothing says “blissfully in love” quite like a matching outfit. This pair of hoodies is a gift for you both, allowing you to showcase your couple’s style in, well, style. Choose from dozens of hues (matching or not). Then, include your anniversary and one another’s initials in the custom field. It’ll be embroidered on the sleeves in Roman numerals, with of course, a heart on the sleeves. 

16

Blissy Pure Silk Sleep Mask

Macy’s

$52.00

Sometimes, true love is knowing how to say you’re sorry. Is your late-night reading or TV light the reason your spouse has had less-than-perfect shut-eye this year? A silky eye mask might be the way to get back in their good graces. Bonus: The 12-year anniversary gift theme is silk, so this is a fun pick if you’re marking that milestone. 

17

Mauviel Copper Fry Pan

Williams Sonoma

$199.95

By the time your seventh anniversary rolls around, you’ve probably worn through many of the kitchen gadgets and gear you put on your registry almost a decade ago. The good news? The traditional seventh anniversary gift is copper, which happens to make for some stunning cookware. This do-it-all pan from Mauviel is a cult classic, thanks to its superior construction and even heating. Your favorite chef will feel so spoiled. 

18

Recycled Glass Birth Month Flower Vase

Uncommon Goods

$75.00

A bouquet is a classic anniversary gift idea, so you really can’t go wrong with a beautiful bundle of blooms. That being said, if you’re looking to really wow your spouse, why not have the stems waiting for them in a stunning vase, too? This pretty piece from Uncommon Goods comes in 12 distinct colorways, each representing a month of the year. Choose the one that best represents your anniversary for a standout gift that doubles down on meaningful details. 

19

Anniversary Wine Box

Uncommon Goods

$185.00

Still stumped thinking of what to get for your anniversary? Look to the year’s themes. For couples shopping for a 5-year anniversary gift, wood is the way to go. This clever wine box hits the theme from two angles, both with the material, as well as with the carved tree motif decorating the front. The box itself boasts compartments for three different bottles of wine (or another favorite booze) that you can then open on your fifth, seventh, and tenth anniversaries. 

20

We Found Each Other Custom Puzzle

Uncommon Goods

$129.00

Every couple has their own traditions and rituals, whether that’s sharing a morning coffee, an evening stroll, or a passion for video games. If puzzles are your thing, this custom creation is the missing piece to your next anniversary celebration. Your one-of-a-kind design will showcase an aerial view of where you met, as well as one very charming phrase.

21

14K Diamond Stud Earrings

Macy’s

$1000.00

There are just some instances that call for a wow factor, and your tenth anniversary is one such occasion. Traditionally, celebrating a decade by each other’s side calls for diamonds (twist our arms!). The prized stone is one that can cater to any gender and style. These heirloom-worthy studs are as timeless as they come. In fact, they’ll look just as stunning today as they will in another decade.

Frequently Asked Questions


What should I give to a couple on an anniversary?

Anniversary gifts for couples should feel personal and thoughtful, something that celebrates their unique bond. A great choice could be something customizable like a framed photo, personalized artwork, or even a custom cutting board. Anything that adds a personal touch to their home or memories will be a win. 

What is the most common anniversary gift?

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